January 20, 2010- Albuquerque, NM- Bad people can only want three things from you. Your money/property, your body or your life. Consider this. Bad guys don't want three things- for it to take to long, to get hurt or get caught. Knowing this can be helpful for assessing your vulnerability at a given point. There are pre-attack indicators that bad guys use and I have found a good video of some of them. Notice how common sense plays into noticing what the pre-attack indicators are. remember to use your instinct, intuition and intelligence to solve a problem.
Many of the concepts that I teach are based upon conflict research of Tony Blauer, who I train under.
Bad things happen and it is important to not be in denail. Be observant and aware. Trust your instinct and remember that bad situations call for uncommon self defense. Any victim of an attack must also be concerned about the "secondary location." This is where a bad guy might take you after the initial attack. Remember the money, body life analogy? It is estimated that over 3% of the world's socient are sociopaths. Consider the following:
Psychopathy (pronounced /saɪˈkɒpəθi/[1][2]) is a personality disorder whose hallmark is a lack of empathy. Researcher Robert Hare, whose Hare Psychopathy Checklist is widely used, describes psychopaths as "intraspecies predators[3][4] who usecharisma, manipulation, intimidation, sexual intercourse and violence[5][6][7] to control others and to satisfy their own needs. Lacking in conscience and empathy, they take what they want and do as they please, violating social norms and expectations without guilt or remorse".[8] "What is missing, in other words, are the very qualities that allow a human being to live in social harmony."[9] ~ wikidepia
The prototypical psychopath has deficits or deviances in several areas: interpersonal relationships, emotion, and self-control. Psychopaths gain satisfaction through antisocial behavior, and do not experience shame, guilt, or remorse for their actions.[15][16][17] Psychopaths lack a sense of guilt or remorse for any harm they may have caused others, instead rationalizing the behavior, blaming someone else, or denying it outright.[18] Psychopaths also lack empathy towards others in general, resulting in tactlessness, insensitivity, and contemptuousness. All of this belies their tendency to make a good, likable first impression. Psychopaths have a superficial charm about them, enabled by a willingness to say anything without concern for accuracy or truth. Shallow affect also describes the psychopath's tendency for genuine emotion to be short lived and egocentric with an overall cold demeanor. Their behavior is impulsive and irresponsible, often failing to keep a job or defaulting ondebts.[18] Psychopaths also have a markedly distorted sense of the potential consequences of their actions, not only for others, but also for themselves. They do not, for example, deeply recognize the risk of being caught, disbelieved or injured as a result of their behaviour.[19] ~ wikipedia
I stress a model that empowers people to detect, deter and defend against attack or violent behavior. The best conflict is the one where you are not involved. How does a person avoid confrontaiton all together?
Be safe and prepare yourself. Contact me for further training. Local, National and International.
Robb Hamic, Self-defense coach
robb@summitselfdefense.com




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